Friday, December 5, 2014

13 Things to Remember All the Times

13 Things to Remember All the Times


1-    No one can ruin your day without your permission.
2-   Most of the people will be about as happy as they decide to be.
3-   Other can stop you temporarily but YOU can do it permanently.
4-   Success stops when you do.
5-   You will never have it all together.
6-   Life is journey not a destination. Enjoy the trip.
7-   The best way to escape your problem is to solve it.
8-   If you don';t start, it is certain you won';t reach.
9-   He or She whoever laughs , lasts.
10- Life is what is coming, not what was.
11-  Success is getting up one more time
12- When things go wrong, don';t go with them.
13- Yesterday was the deadline for all complaints

Source: Junaid Tahir 

బతుకు పయనం


బతుకు పయనం

నిశ్శబ్దంలో ఒక శబ్దం, గుండె చప్పుడు లయతో
నిర్లిప్తతలో ఒక భావం, పెదవి దాటని మాటలతో
నిరాశలో ఒక ఆశ, కోర్కెలు తొలిచే అంతరంగంలో
ఓటమిలో ఒక పాఠం అనుభవాల ఆరోహణలో
అగమ్యంలో ఒక  గమ్యం క్రొత్త దారుల అన్వేషణలో
అయోమయంలో ఒక సమయం కర్తవ్య అవగతంలో
అనుబంధంలో ఒక బంధం అంతు చిక్కని ఆనందానికై
కాలగతిలో ఒక  గమనం సుఖదుఖాల ఒరవడికై
జీవితంలో ఒక లక్ష్యం భావి బతుకున మనశ్శాంతికై


The Story of The Wise Farmer of China

The Story of The Wise Farmer of China


Many years ago, in a poor Chinese village, there lived a farmer and his son. His only material possession, apart from the land and a small hut, was a horse he had inherited from his father.
One day, the horse ran away, leaving the man with no animal with which to work the land.
His neighbours, who respected him for his honesty and diligence, went to his house to say how much they regretted his loss. He thanked them for their visit, but asked:
"How do you know that what happened was a misfortune in my life?"Someone muttered to a friend: "He obviously doesn';t want to face facts, but let him think what he likes, after all, it';s better than being sad about it."
And the neighbours went away again, pretending to agree with what he had said.
A week later, the horse returned to its stable, but it was not alone; it brought with it a beautiful mare for company.
The inhabitants of the village were thrilled when they heard the news, for only then did they understand the reply the man had given them, and they went back to the farmer';s house to congratulate him on his good fortune.
"Instead of one horse, you';ve got two. Congratulations!" they said.
"Many thanks for your visit and for your solidarity," replied the farmer. "But how do you know that what happened was a blessing in my life?"
The neighbours were rather put out and decided that the man must be going mad, and, as they left, they said: "Doesn';t the man realise that the horse is a gift from God?"
A month later, the farmer';s son decided to break the mare in. However, the animal bucked wildly and threw the boy off; the boy fell awkwardly and broke his leg.
The neighbours returned to the farmer';s house, bringing presents for the injured boy. The mayor of the village solemnly presented his condolences to the father, saying how sad they all were about what had occurred.
The man thanked them for their visit and for their kindness, but he asked:
"How do you know that what happened was a misfortune in my life?"
These words left everyone dumbstruck, because they were all quite sure that the son';s accident was a real tragedy. As they left the farmer';s house, they said to each other: "Now he really has gone mad; his only son could be left permanently crippled, and he';s not sure whether the accident was a misfortune or not!"
A few months went by, and Japan declared war on China. The emperor';s emissaries scoured the country for healthy young men to be sent to the front.
When they reached the village, they recruited all the young men, except the farmer';s son, whose leg had not yet mended.
None of the young men came back alive. The son recovered, and the two horses produced foals that were all sold for a good price.
The farmer went to visit his neighbours to console and to help them, since they had always shown him such solidarity.
Whenever any of them complained, the farmer would say: "How do you know that what happened was a misfortune?"
If someone was overjoyed about something, he would ask: "How do you know that what happened was a blessing?"
And the people of the village came to understand that life has other meanings that go beyond mere appearance. It has to be clearly understood that everything happens with the will of God. Its not by chance or by luck, instead it is as per God';s perfect plan even if we do not understand it.
Source:  by Junaid Tahir

Funny Pictures- kids pics with captions- Jokes- Kids photos

Funny Pictures- kids pics with captions- Jokes- Kids photos

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

How To Live & Die - Khushwant Singh

How To Live & Die - Khushwant Singh


A very nice article by Late Khushwant Singh.

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I've often thought about what it is that makes people happy—what one has to do in order to achieve happiness.

First and foremost is good health. If you do not enjoy good health, you can never be happy. Any ailment, however trivial, will deduct something from your happiness.

Second, a healthy bank balance. It need not run into crores, but it should be enough to provide for comforts, and there should be something to spare for recreation—eating out, going to the movies, travel and holidays in the hills or by the sea. Shortage of money can be demoralising. Living on credit or borrowing is demeaning and lowers one in one’s own eyes.

Third, your own home. Rented places can never give you the comfort or security of a home that is yours for keeps. If it has garden space, all the better. Plant your own trees and flowers, see them grow and blossom, and cultivate a sense of kinship with them.

Fourth, an understanding companion, be it your spouse or a friend. If you have too many misunderstandings, it robs you of your peace of mind. It is better to be divorced than to be quarrelling all the time.

Fifth, stop envying those who have done better than you in life—risen higher, made more money, or earned more fame. Envy can be corroding; avoid comparing yourself with others.

Sixth, do not allow people to descend on you for gup-shup. By the time you get rid of them, you will feel exhausted and poisoned by their gossip-mongering.

Seventh, cultivate a hobby or two that will fulfill you—gardening, reading, writing, painting, playing or listening to music. Going to clubs or parties to get free drinks, or to meet celebrities, is a criminal waste of time. It’s important to concentrate on something that keeps you occupied meaningfully.

Eighth, every morning and evening devote 15 minutes to introspection. In the mornings, 10 minutes should be spent in keeping the mind absolutely still, and five listing the things you have to do that day. In the evenings, five minutes should be set aside to keep the mind still and 10 to go over the tasks you had intended to do.

Ninth, don’t lose your temper. Try not to be short-tempered, or vengeful. Even when a friend has been rude, just move on.

Above all, when the time comes to go, one should go like a man without any regret or grievance against anyone. Iqbal said it beautifully in a couplet in Persian: “You ask me about the signs of a man of faith? When death comes to him, he has a smile on his lips.”

I don’t fear death. What I dread is the day I go blind or am incapacitated because of old age—that’s what I fear—I’d rather die than live in that condition. I’m a burden enough on my daughter Mala and don’t want to be an extra burden on her.

All that I hope for is that when death comes to me, it comes swiftly, without much pain, like fading away in sound slumber. Till then I’ll keep working and living each day as it comes.

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- Khushwant Singh (96) in 2011